Tapping Out

When I was little, I remember we used to play this game called “Say Uncle”. You and another person would play fight and when one person would get the other in a painful state of submission, the person being dominated would have to “Say Uncle” when they couldn’t take the pain anymore. I remember always…

Jigaboos and Jezebels: On Being Young, Black, and Single…

If you truly know me then you know I have a guilty pleasure for reality tv. You name it, I probably watch it now or have seen it. I like to live vicariously through the ratchets. *kanye shrug* The other night I was watching the Real Housewives of Atlanta and, once again, I heard the…

Mind Blown

I get approached by guys a lot. I don’t mean this in a cocky way, but to say that I’ve made a lot of observations about the way men think it’s ok to approach a woman. Whether they initially came direct and stated their intentions or if they waited a little bit and let me…